Stay or leave a relationship
A structured, values-based way to decide whether to stay and rebuild — or move on with clarity and peace of mind.
Domain:
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Understanding the situation
Goals & constraints
You want to make a fair, thoughtful choice that aligns with your values and long-term wellbeing. We clarify what matters most — love, stability, growth, independence, children, finances, timing — and the boundaries that can’t be crossed.
Options
Stay and work on change, take temporary distance, or end the relationship respectfully. We structure these options to reflect your real alternatives, not impulsive extremes.
Uncertainties
Can things improve? Will change last? How will each option affect your wellbeing, finances, and relationships with others? We make these questions explicit and examine them objectively.
Criteria & trade-offs
Connection, trust, autonomy, safety, shared purpose — we translate values into criteria and explore where each option stands. You’ll see trade-offs clearly, without guilt or pressure.
Talk it through
Sometimes the hardest part is making sense of what’s going on. If you’d like to talk it through, I offer a free 30-minute clarity call to map your situation together.
The CoreFrame 4D™ approach
How we reach clarity
01 Diagnose
Clarify the real sources of dissatisfaction · Distinguish situational from structural problems · Identify unmet needs and non-negotiables · Define what “a healthy relationship” means for you.
02 Design
Generate constructive paths — staying and rebuilding, taking distance, or separating · Explore what each would require from you and your partner · Map scenarios for short- and long-term wellbeing.
03 Decide
Compare the options transparently · Weigh emotional, practical, and ethical factors · Quantify alignment with your personal values and goals · Arrive at a clear, confident decision you can stand by.
04 Do
Turn your decision into action with compassion and stability · Plan communication and transition steps · Define boundaries and support structures · Review early outcomes and adjust with care.
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